Hello Ralph.  That was a fantastic response.  Thank-you!  I think you answered almost all of my questions.
I have seen glimpses of the Roto Damper in the forum.  I will definitely spend some time looking that up.
So if you don't mind, here are a few more questions:
1) I use my UDS mostly for low and slow, and also for higher heat cooks - not more than 350 degF.  So, thermistor probes would work fine.  However, I can envision using it also on my Weber when I do high heat cooks (steaks, etc.).  So I am thinking the TC option is for me.  In addition, I appreciate your comments about TC durability vs thermistor probes.
Yeah, I would get a TC version, if you plan to use the UDS  for high of 350+, because if you are at those temps its very easy to take your lid off the UDS and have the temp raise well beyond the rating of the probes, and you can use it on the Weber also.
2) I have thought about taking a step-by-step approach (working controller, then add connectivity) - to make sure I don't spend unnecessary $$ if I am not able to complete it.  However, I know that I will want the full functionality immediately after I get the controller working.  Do you have any advice on this?
You will want to get a Pi to be able to program the Heatermeter and since you will need a Pi, a Wifi adapter is not much more, after that there is not much else you may need.  The rest of the options are nice to have and can be bought at a later date.
3) To purchase the kit, do I just go to 
http://store.heatermeter.com/ and buy it there?   I notice that the kit comes with a 6.5cfm fan.  Would I just separately get a 10cfm like you suggested, or can the kit come with that fan?  (Should that question be directed at Bryan Mayland?)
If you buy the Heatermeter in kit form, you will receive the 6.5cfm blower, you will need to order a separate blower from another source, Ebay is a great and cheap place.  Look for Delta blowers,  I have been using my Delta bfb1012HH 28cfm on my UDS since 2010 
4) Do I work separately to obtain a case and the roto-damper?
Yes/and no depending.  I know Ralph makes the Rotodamper and he to can make a version of the HM case and Tom makes cases.  They both are great to work with and you would need to contact them to figure whats best for you 
5) Are you the guy that created the "jetted intake" for your UDS?  I think that concept makes good sense - more efficient use of intake air, and better control.  Do you have that on your UDS that uses the HM?
I did not create a "jetted intake"  I know of someone using one on something other then a UDS, though, but sure whom it was.  I was going to try one on my UDS but after asking questions on another website that has the "mother of all UDS"  threads going, I decided it would not be that beneficial to the UDS and have just kept it simple.  I currently use a 3/4 intake, but after this winter, I will be adding auxiliary openings, as I was not able to get enough air into the UDS to keep a stable temp.  My older UDS had more openings and did not have any problems with cold weather.