SWMBO says my pulled pork and brisket is better than any she has had (including restaurants). Any my friends say the same when I cook for them. That said, they are friends and family. I am a work in progress and thanks to those on this forum, I am getting better. I don't think I will ever compete but it just makes me happy to cook at home and enjoy the results and learn from my mistakes (and there are enough of those unfortunately) Then why do we do it? Simple, it is fun!!