You are showing great restraint, my compliments! I completely understand the maintenance of household Harmony, my wife is really compassionate...to a point.
I am going to keep my eyes open for a 14” just for those times when I am just doing a small cook.
I love my 18, the 22 was too big so, I sold it. I don’t need any more but, I think I “want” the 14. If it falls in my lap, fine if not, I can wait.