I don't think anyone will fault you for going with wither one. Mendel90 is probably more recommended from what I've seen when I was looking, and still is highly recommended as anyone's first printer today. It's pretty solid and because so many use it, there's mod after mod after mod for it. I hear it is more stable than the i3 (even the vrail i3) but it also costs a bit more.
In other news, I finally got my new printer to print. It was just making a mess and laying down this wispy material. I pulled apart the extruder and examining the drive gear, it was garbage (see my previous post). It looked like someone forgot to finish cutting the grippy-bit! So I ordered another one and waited for it to come and this time I get this:
I emailed the seller about it and they said
This wheel works better than original one and better than china mk8 Wheel. Top performance was confirmed hundred times. ...
Overall this design is just works. Dont ask why

we sold several thousand through several online stores. Not a single complaint except your scientific findings

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Do not worry, just use the wheel. It should work.
This one works a little better but still I can not print consistently. I'm fed up by this point and it's been a month that I've been trying to print and this has been holding me up so I considered buying 10 different MK8 gears just to hopefully get one that was made competently. Instead I just went to Amazon and bought
this one.
Being one that must quantify his disappointment, I built a rig to measure filament pressure. The device looks like this, which is hard to make out the parts on account of them all being the same color, but it is a mount that goes on the printer frame, with a load cell bar in it that the stepper motor is strapped to.
The load cell is read using a cheap HX711 I got from eBay for a couple of bucks. I find the whole thing pretty fascinating watching the force/pressure on the filament as various features are printed. The infill with the temperature too low is really interesting because it doesn't just jump up to the full force, the extrudite coming out just doesn't keep up with how much the extruder is pushing so it steadily climbs until it levels out or starts to skip. Either way you're not getting the requested amount of plastic laid down.
The first one, purchased from eBay seller
sidewinderinc starts slipping at about 2kg (the graph scale is 0-5kg).
Next the "special" one from eBay seller
rp_one_labs which was able to achieve about 2.6kg of force before it started letting loose.
Finally the new brass one from Amazon. The stepper started slipping at 0.5A ~3kg so I upped that to 0.75A. This one was hard to get a screenshot because the feedrate had to be super high to get it to slip. I think it was feeding 10mm/s at this point and pushing over 4.2kg.
Printing some infill at 60mm/s I took this screenshot to show how the extruder temperature can affect the pressure to the point it slips. At 220C the large swath of straight infill runs about 1.8kg-1.9kg. Drop the temperature to 200C and the force slides up as the extruder cools, up to 2.3kg. I had been trying to print at 200C, and this is the point that the other MK8s were losing their grip. Surprising that PLA would need 220C.
Finally, here's one where you can see the print speed is changing as it prints different types of extrusion, from perimeters to small perimeters to infill. Note how when it changes speeds there's an amount of time it takes the pressure to stabilize, so the first little bit of extrusion is going to be too much or too little based on the print speed of the previous segment. This can be counteracted by the "pressure advance" algorithm that Slic3r can generate, which adds a teensy retract or recover when switching speeds to prime / unprime the pressure
