Thanks Joe.....my knives need all the help they can get....I am embarrassed to say that I have never sharpened them. The brand is J A Henckels........its prob not the knives fault.......I am guilty as charged.
OK - so this obviously isn't the knife sharpening forum. I'll offer a few thoughts for beginners.
If you don't want to sharpen knives, you can buy cheap and replace. That works nowadays, especially for paring knives that cost like a dollar.
If you want to sharpen, you need the right knives, as well as tools and skills. Many stainless knives are simply hard (opposite of soft as well as difficult) to get an edge on. In the old days, knives had the opposite problem - they were easy to sharpen but dulled quickly due to softer steel.
Henckel is expensive but lasts a lifetime and is a better knife than you really need. I use a set of Henckels from about 20 years ago for everyday cooking.
Never dish wash knives (the powder dulls them) or bang them together in a drawer. You really need a block or similar.
A sharp knife really is safer because it goes where you want it too with less pressure.
My only experience is hand sharpening with stones. Kitchen knives are very forgiving to sharpen compared to other tools. Axes and chisels need to be sharp but also strong enough to cut wood. Kitchen knives can be sharp and thin and weak and still work perfectly on meat and vegetables.
Any sharpening is better than no sharpening. I bought my 8-year-old son a $3 sharpening stone from Harbor Freight. The basic motion is like cutting slices off the stone. You need to do both sides equally.