On Pin 23 of the ATMega I can't seem to see where it gets a direct gnd connection, I see 1K to gnd on that pin (though the diagram does show it as white/gnd). I think Bryan said that already? So, don't jumper that one directly to gnd, test continuity to the top leg of the 1k resistor, the bottom leg of the switch to pin 23, I dont think that's your problem (but remove the gnd jumper if you have one in place, try measure resistance to gnd, is it 1K? that would be good!)
So, on to your latest post about missing voltages... I would go down the line on your power and test each step... 12V(ish) input, 12V in the OKI 5v out, 5v in the 3.3v reg 3.3v out.... My guess is you're gonna find your 3.3v wonky, and probably have a short somewhere on the 3.3v line or possibly a wrong component somewhere or something installed backward.