So a quick update. For the D3 that was backwards, I ordered a new one two years ago but ended up going to radio shack and buying a replacement part. Still didn't work and when the new one came in the mail I just shoved it in a corner. This weekend, I took out he radio shack piece and put in the one I ordered. Plugged it in and it worked...until I bent the piece a little bit and it a big piece of solder shorted out on the component right next to it. Oh well, it still works powered up with raspberry pi so I can monitor temps. I want to thank everyone that gave advice/helped me out with this build. I learned a lot.
With that said, I just happen to have a raspberry pi 3 sitting around doing nothing so I ordered up the kit for the 4.3. I already printed the bottom for the case last night and will print the top today. I also ordered up the soldering station that was suggested in the github. The kit is arriving today so I will be building this evening. My plan is the have a couple of beers (to calm my shaky hands) and take my time and double check everything. Any other advice? What temp should I be soldering at. Should I use a flux pen? Anything else to be aware of....