Joan -- I think coffee has gotten better over the years. Way more info than before; much better access to good coffee and good gear than before. The coffee I make at home today is massively better than what I drank years ago.
Check out the numerous long-running coffee threads on here. People obsessing over grinders, brewing methods, best coffee brands, their Technivorm Mocamasters, etc. etc. etc. Quite a few coffee nerds on here.
Give us the deets on DH's methods so we can flyspeck. We could easily coach him up from whatever he's doing now.
Or maybe you just don't like coffee. Do you like the taste of a latte from Starbucks for example?