there's a safety in the propane tank's valve that's there to stop the flow in case the tank is opened without a hose connected or if the hose was cut or some other reason for gas to rapidly flow out. Once the tank has been in place & connected & the valves opened etc, grill used, then it doesn't seem so picky.
The portable grills, I can only speak for the Q100 with an adapter to use a regular tank: I had to set that up & leave it without touching it for 1 hour, or the gas flow would be anemic, if the grill would start at all. I did a hose / regulator mod found here to make it friendlier.
I don't have problems with my silver B, but I turn mine off each time, mainly because it's one more step reduce the times I go to start the grill & see the burners all left on, same as the tank (empty tank).
If you want to try to simulate the problem, open all your gas valves on the grill, & then open the valve on your tank real fast, that might show you how the safety works in your propane tank.
Pretty sure it's the OPD valve
https://youtu.be/5cgeNzrYa6Q