Joe, it sounds like you are wanting to connect an ethernet cable from your Stoker to your laptop. This will allow the Laptop to use Stokerlog to monitor the Stoker. But it will not be accessible by another PC.
I think you are thinking about a router, in order to make it accessible to other PCs. The wireless card on your laptop is just used to be able to pick up the wireless signal from a router. So if the Stoker were connected via an ethernet cable (hard wired) to a wireless router, then you could pick up that wireless signal from the router and be able to run Stokerlog to monitor the Stoker box.
If you opened up the port on the router while you had the Stoker hard wired to the router, you could then access the Stoker on any PC outside of your network -- someone else with more knowledge could help you out with that.
But from just reading your initial post, it sounds like you are confusing a wireless card (on your laptop) with what a router does.
If I have totally misunderstood your post, I'm sorry.