I think you are for sure making a good call to go the Heater Meter direction, I don't think anything else on the market comes close to the features of the HM and it is constantly evolving... evolving quite a lot in recent months and near future as well.
As for what is available HM wise, you've got that down too... the HMv4.1.X is the latest stable release version and is quite a nice unit. That said, being lucky enough to have a v4.2 prototype I have to say I think v4.2 has taken a solid leap forward, so it might be worth waiting for. The most recent "standard" HM board that is stocked and sold by OSHPark in sigles is the HMv4.0, all of the V4.1 boards have to be ordered from OSHPark by uploading the board design to them and ordering 3 at a time, that's why you see people looking for single boards here and selling their extras. I'm not quite sure if Bryan has made the v4.2.x board designs available or not, cause if you have that board file what's to stop someone from ordering 3 of those instead of the v4.1? We'll, there is no build guide yet, and while the majority of the parts are the same on all versions there are handful of parts that are different on v4.2.X and there is no official BOM or linked shopping cart at Mouser for the parts. That said, you can start with the 4.1.X cart and throw in the rest of the new parts manually...
OK, probably not helping you at this point! LOL It all really comes down to your skill set and personality. If you are an impatient type and need a more guided experience then maybe go down the well traveled v4.1 road right away, if you are very patient perhaps sit back and let Bryan put together the official v4.2 release, if you are adventurous and have background electronic skills and think you are up to the challenge perhaps see if you can get the v4.2 board files and piece it together. If you go that route I think the thread I started recently about my v4.2.3 build will be helpful to you.